Entering this Holiday Season with a Thankful Heart

By: Emily Carrington EPLA Founder and President

Five years ago my heart was broken and I felt stuck in despair. I had suffered two miscarriages that year and I was entering the holiday season with all of the postpartum hormones and no precious baby. Though I tried, I wasn’t sure I could ever be thankful or merry again.

While the pain of my losses remains, this year I enter the holiday season with a heart of gratitude. But it is not for reasons I ever imagined. 
As the president of the Early Pregnancy Loss Association, these are some things I am thankful for this year:

• The pregnancy loss community: I have never met a more supportive and loving group of people who truly just want to help people. There are so many non-profits, medical professionals, counselors, and supporters out there wanting to work together. It is amazing. 

• Real changes in the discourse surrounding pregnancy loss: While there is still work to do, I believe that the pregnancy loss community has made major strides in talking about loss. People are continuing to speak up about their losses and feel empowered to grieve and address loss. Let’s keep this up!

• Our relationship with our local medical community: Last spring we had the opportunity to host a Lunch and Learn at the local hospital in Hillsdale, Michigan. The response was incredible and has increased our capacity to serve in our community. 

• Our growing network of supporters: I am touched so deeply by every single person who chooses to support EPLA. Whether it is through volunteer service, Facebook Birthday Fundraisers, or item donations, we appreciate every ounce of support. I know that each of you have a story and a connection to our cause. I grieve with you, and I am thankful for your giving heart. 

I know not everyone is ready to be thankful. For those who still feel the weight of grief, I hope that you can find a small reprieve this holiday season. Whether it be a moment of gratitude for a loving family member or a moment of rest and peace related to a happy memory. There will be a day you can be thankful again. 

Photo by Freshh Connection on Unsplash

While the pain of my losses remains, this year I enter the holiday season with a heart of gratitude. But it is not for reasons I ever imagined. 

Emily Carrington is a freelance writer, wife, mother, and founder of the EPLA.